Anthony Wolf has a new book out to help you figure out and relate to the teenager in your family. I like this book, it even made me laugh out loud (lol) in a few spots - but as I've said before about parenting books - read it with your own unique perspective and think about whether his advice is right for you. Some of his suggestions I think are very creative, some will be hard to follow, and some may not be a good fit. But there are lots of ideas to get you thinking.