10 more days.

If you've looked at the previous post for 10 Days to a Less Distracted Child, this one is for 10 Days to a Less Defiant Child, also by Jeffrey Bernstein.

I would ignore the initial focus on Oppositional Defiant Disorder - which is quickly abandoned - and focus on the practical, clear suggestions on how to handle it when you and your child do not see eye to eye.  10 Days is pretty quick, but using this book as you build positive parenting strategies over time will be helpful.